Bernard “Bernie” Lawrence Jr., 83, of Dummerston, VT – a warm-hearted presence known for his spotless lawn, spotless car, and unshakable sense of humor – passed away peacefully on the morning of July 7, 2025.

Bernie was born in Walpole, NH, in 1942, to Loraine and Bernard Lawrence Sr., who lived close by throughout their life in Westminster, VT. Growing up with four brothers provided plenty of colorful drama and life-long bonds.

Bernie built a life rooted in dedication, family, and connection. He was a member of the Army National Guard and for decades, he served as the Postmaster in Westminster Station, VT – a career he filled with care, pride, and a rare kind of personal touch. He often had mail pulled and ready for neighbors before they even reached the counter, a testament to how well he knew – and genuinely cared about – everyone who came through the door. He retired in 2015, leaving behind not just a job, but a legacy of service and friendship.

Bernie had an eye for the details – his yard was always trimmed just right, his car gleamed year-round, and not a hair was ever out of place. But beneath that meticulous nature was a soft heart and a playful spirit. He loved a good laugh and could be counted on to tell a risqué joke with a mischievous twinkle in his eye. His family and friends knew him as someone who brought levity and warmth to every gathering.

A lifelong sports fan, Bernie especially loved football, boxing, and auto racing – where Dale Earnhardt’s iconic No. 3 car held a special place in his heart. For many years, he and his son, Scott made an annual pilgrimage to Loudon, NH to take in the roar and rush of the races. He also cherished peaceful getaways to Back Lake in Pittsburg, NH and never missed a chance to join in the joyful chaos of family parties, holidays, and milestone celebrations.

Above all, Bernie was deeply devoted to his family. He took great pride in their accomplishments, in maintaining strong lifelong friendships, and in simply staying connected whether through a phone call, a shared meal, or one of his legendary chats with anyone willing to talk, anywhere, anytime.

He is survived by his daughter, Deborah Kesler (husband, Chris); daughter-in-law, Daniella Lawrence; grandchildren, Ethan Kesler, Jared Kesler, Nicole Lawrence, and Sydney Lawrence, brothers, Daniel Lawrence, James Lawrence (wife, Vicki), David Lawrence, and Dana Lawrence, along with many nieces, and nephews; and his extended family through Sheila: step-children, Sherry Ames (husband, Brian), Shelly Hain (husband, Bob), Glen “Johnny” Hutchins, Jr (wife, April), Greg Hutchins, and Stephanie Powell (husband, Ray); step-grandchildren, Megan Pouliot, Amanda Bohigian, Tyler Hain, Molly Hain, Crystal Hutchins, Colby Hutchins, Courtney Pierre, Taylor Hutchins, Troy Powell, and Alec Powell.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Loraine and Bernard Lawrence Sr.; his first wife, Nancy (Merrill) Lawrence; his son, Scott Lawrence; his second wife, Sheila (King) Lawrence; and nephew/godson, James “Jamie” Lawrence Jr.

A private graveside service will be held for immediate family. A Celebration of Life, open to the community, will take place on July 23 from 3:00–5:00 PM at the First Congregational Church of Westminster on Rt 5 – a chance to share stories, laughter, and memories in true Bernie fashion.

Arrangements have been entrusted to the care of the Fenton and Hennessey Funeral Home, 55 Westminster Street, Bellows Falls, VT.